That can really torpedo your match rate, especially with people looking for a long-term relationship
- Highlight a few interests that also hint at your personality. 10 seconds will go by in a snap, so you need everything you mention to pack as much of a punch as possible. Mention a couple of hobbies that strategically showcase a range of attractive qualities, like intelligence, physical fitness, a sense of adventure, etc.
- Practice – but don’t memorize. You want to seem approachable, genuine and interesting in your video profile – not stiff, rehearsed and nervous
. Run through what you want to say a few times, but not to the point where it sounds like you’re reciting. That’s also why reading your profile isn’t ideal – you want to look at the camera and make a connection via strong eye contact. - Pay attention to the lighting & background. Few things are more distracting in a video than terrible lighting – and it won’t do you any favors in the looks department either. You also want everything that’s visible in the background to elevate the impression she’s forming of you as she watches it, so choose your surroundings carefully.
Wondering how to get off the League waitlist? Purchasing a full membership will guarantee you an expedited review – within 48 hours (Monday through Friday). You can also refer 2 friends for guaranteed entry.
You can also get an expedited review on The League by doing things like referring a friend to sign up or tweaking your profile, but that same 48-hour timeline doesn’t apply.
Matching On The League
When you are accepted, you’ll receive 3-15 matches, called “prospects”, every day at 5 pm. The number of matches depends on your membership level.
When you like one of your daily “5 at 5” matches and they’ve already liked your profile, you’ll get a “Home Run” notification.
According to the app, the person who gets the Home Run notification should send the first message. But that’s only a suggestion – not a rule.
You can swipe left or right, and if the interest is mutual the messaging platform opens.